I think the main element would be to be sure to most perform need a great long-term relationship hahah «extremely reluctantly.» zero, OP, in the event that she ended up being hesitant she would have-not told you it. she achieved it maliciously, whether it is correct or perhaps not; you may be currently separated, that it couldn’t had been expected. malice is a typical mediocre people desire in people that hate anybody else. however it is perhaps not gendered and…